To women:
From crush-crazies in teenage years to mothers-in-law.
But see this:
Random link of the day:
http://hefferblog.blogspot.com/p/about-alice.html
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Saturday, July 17, 2010
How do I know if people think I am a fake?
HOW DO I KNOW IF PEOPLE THINK I AM A FAKE? I AM 24.
SMART AUNT:
People don't think you are a fake. This is my instinct. But you think you are a fake. Ask yourself why. When was the last time you felt you were yourself? Why did you change?
Stop thinking you are a fake. You are the real thing! Let others imitate you. 2 or even 5years later, all the people you keep thinking about will not matter. They will be dead, or very unhappy or diseased. What will matter is you did not enjoy being 24!
SMART AUNT:
People don't think you are a fake. This is my instinct. But you think you are a fake. Ask yourself why. When was the last time you felt you were yourself? Why did you change?
Stop thinking you are a fake. You are the real thing! Let others imitate you. 2 or even 5years later, all the people you keep thinking about will not matter. They will be dead, or very unhappy or diseased. What will matter is you did not enjoy being 24!
How long should I wait before writing again?
HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT BEFORE WRITING TO SOMEONE AGAIN?
SMART AUNT:
One week. 3 weeks if relating to a job application. If you have mailed already, avoid cell phone messages or calls. Unless it's an urgent matter.
TIP:
More facts will make my response more specific.
With more background, my response may be NEVER- just don't write again- it was a stupid thing to write anyway!
SMART AUNT:
One week. 3 weeks if relating to a job application. If you have mailed already, avoid cell phone messages or calls. Unless it's an urgent matter.
TIP:
More facts will make my response more specific.
With more background, my response may be NEVER- just don't write again- it was a stupid thing to write anyway!
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